{"product_id":"classic-tote-bag-black-we-do-not-date-men-who-drink-decaf","title":"'We Do Not Date Men Who Drink Decaf' Tote — Decaf Is a Red Flag. Oat Milk Is a Confession.","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eAt some point, someone ordered a decaf. With oat milk. And something shifted. Not dramatically. Just a quiet, internal recalibration — a small but significant door closing, gently but permanently, on a certain kind of future.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe 'We Do Not Date Men Who Drink Decaf' tote is for everyone who has sat across a table, watched someone order a decaf oat milk latte, and felt the specific, quiet grief of a dealbreaker revealing itself in real time. Who has tried to be open-minded about it. Who has failed. Who has made peace with that failure and moved on to someone who drinks a real espresso without apologising. 😂\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eDecaf is not coffee. Decaf is a decision. Oat milk is a confession. Both together is a pattern. We respect all choices. We do not date all choices. 💙\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt is for the Ray Peat adjacent woman who goes for the full caffeinated experience with real milk, full fat, real white refined sugar, no apologies. It is for everyone who already knew. Who never needed to learn this lesson because the lesson was obvious from the start. There is reportedly a man in the Galilee drinking decaf. The Joyful Objects founder is reconsidering. 😂\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e☕ Black tote, pink font — bold, unapologetic, the aesthetic of someone who takes their coffee and their standards seriously\u003cbr\u003e☔ Decaf is a red flag. Oat milk is a confession. Both together is a pattern.\u003cbr\u003e☀️ Ray Peat approved — real coffee, real caffeine, real milk, always full fat, always\u003cbr\u003e🛍️ 100% cotton, reinforced stitching on handles — sturdy enough for your groceries and your non-negotiables\u003cbr\u003e🧹 Machine wash warm (max 40°C), tumble dry low\u003cbr\u003e✨ Printed on demand — no minimums, no compromises, no decaf anything\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eOrder the espresso. Full fat. Skip the decaf. Know your dealbreakers. L'chaim. 💙\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Phyllis Tulazsewski - Joyful Objects","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":53220801511752,"sku":"f834c2f6-5fdd-48fc-9e61-a4d918a99dff","price":34.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0956\/3481\/7352\/files\/f67a7109-492c-454f-b1d0-8eaabe2604dd.jpg?v=1780391007","url":"https:\/\/phyllis-tulaszewski.com\/products\/classic-tote-bag-black-we-do-not-date-men-who-drink-decaf","provider":"Phyllis Tulaszewski - Joyful Objects","version":"1.0","type":"link"}